Engaging in a child custody battle can be time-consuming and expensive for all parties involved. The average child custody lawyer costs between $500 and $1,031. However, high-end costs range from $4,600 to $5,000. When one parent makes significantly less than the other or has no income at all, it can spark fears that they might be at a disadvantage in a custody case. There are, however, other factors that come into play when deciding custody, aside from income.
Key Takeaways
- When deciding child custody cases, the courts typically prioritize the best interests of the child or children involved over the respective income of either parent.
- Parental income is taken into account when making decisions regarding child and spousal support.
- Having a higher income can make it easier to afford the costs of a child custody or divorce case, though it doesn’t necessarily guarantee that the court will rule in your favor.
- When custody is awarded to the lower-income or nonworking parent, spousal and child support may also be awarded to ensure that the child’s needs are met.
Income and Child Custody
When a child custody case makes its way to court, the income of either parent is generally not the sole factor that affects the court’s decision-making. Instead, courts tend to focus on the best interests of the child when deciding how to award custody and to whom. In New York State, for example, the court considers all of the following when weighing custody decisions:
- Stability of both parents
- Child care arrangements
- Who was the primary caretaker prior to the filing of a child custody case
- Drug and alcohol use
- Mental health of both parents
- Physical health of both parents
- Evidence of domestic abuse on the part of either parent
- Evidence of child abuse, neglect, or abandonment on the part of either parent
- Child’s preference for living with which parent
- Where the child’s siblings live
- Educational opportunities available for the child
- The court’s observation of the parents
- Finances of each parent
In terms of how finances can affect custody decisions, the court looks at each parent’s ability to provide financially for the child. For example, if one parent is experiencing homelessness and is unemployed, they have a lower chance of securing custody because they’re unable to provide housing for the child.
On the other hand, if one parent has no income because they were the primary caretaker of the child, the court may consider their ability to earn an income in the future as a deciding factor in a divorce. The court can also consider payment of spousal or child support to a stay-at-home parent.
Income can also play a different role in child custody cases in terms of motivation and means to pursue a custody case. If one parent always stayed at home, for example, while the other was the primary breadwinner, the former may lack the resources to engage in a lengthy court battle. Conversely, a parent seeking to avoid or minimize their financial responsibility for child or spousal support may not raise custody issues.
State laws can recognize both legal custody and physical custody, and they can be awarded to one parent only or shared.
Income and Child Support
When deciding child custody, the courts can also consider whether it makes sense to award child support to the parent who will be primarily responsible for caring for the child. States use different models to determine how much child support to award.
- Income Shares Model: With this model, the assumption is that the child should receive the same proportion of parental income from the noncustodial parent that they would if both parents still lived together. 41 states use it for determining child support.
- Percentage of Income Model: The percentage of income model establishes child support as a percentage of the noncustodial parent’s income. The income of the custodial parent is not considered in these calculations. Four states apply a flat percentage model, while two use a varying percentage model.
- Melson Formula: The Melson formula is a variation of the income shares model and aims to ensure that each parent’s basic needs (as well as the basic needs of the child) are met.
In the case of child support, earning a higher income could mean paying more, though it can depend on the model that’s used in your state. If both parents are equal earners or child custody is split equally, the court may decide that no child support is necessary for either parent.
For all divorces finalized after January 1, 2019, child support is not tax deductible for the parent who pays it. It’s also not considered to be taxable income for the parent who receives it. Child support can continue until the child turns 18 or 21, or completes college, depending on the terms of the court order.
States can impose limits on how often and under what circumstances a child support order can be modified, including a change in either parent’s financial situation.
Income and Spousal Support
It’s possible that a parent who is seeking custody of one or more children during a divorce may request spousal support as well as child support. Spousal support, also known as alimony, is a form of court-ordered financial support that can be paid by a higher-earning parent to one with a lower or no income. All states recognize alimony, though the laws regarding it vary from state to state.
Alimony is not the same thing as palimony, which is financial support that can be paid between unmarried individuals in a common-law arrangement.
In California, for example, the court may order one partner to pay spousal support to another in monthly installments following a divorce. Couples who have domestic partnerships may request partner support. The amount a spouse or partner can receive depends on:
- Earning capacity, including their marketable skills and ability to get a job
- Financial standard of living they were used to during the relationship
- Length of the marriage or domestic partnership
- Evidence of domestic violence on the part of either spouse or partner
In terms of how long spousal or partner support continues, California lists three conditions:
- When support is ordered ended by the court
- In case of the death of one spouse or partner
- If the spouse or partner receiving support remarries or enters into a new domestic partnership
Other laws have more specific guidelines for how long support can last. In Massachusetts, for example, you can receive alimony for no more than 50% of the number of months you were married or as long as the judge thinks is fair, depending on how long you were married.
When one spouse makes significantly more than the other, it can have a direct impact on alimony decisions in cases where it’s clear that the other spouse needs support. If both spouses have similar incomes or earning capabilities, the court may rule that spousal support is not necessary.
What Are the Chances of a Father Getting Full Custody?
Overall, courts prefer awarding joint custody, and, in the case of awarding full custody, it’s less common for fathers than for mothers. However, over the last few years, it’s become more likely for fathers to become custodial parents. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, fathers made up 20.1% of custodial parents in 2018, up from 16% in 1994.
What Is the Average Child Support Payment in the U.S.?
The average amount of child support that a custodial parent is owed is about $4,000 annually, although the average amount received is $1,800.
Sharing custody makes the lower-income parent more likely to receive full payments.
What Is Alimony?
An alimony payment is a periodic and predetermined sum of money awarded to a former spouse (usually, the lower-income one) after divorce to support their lifestyle.
The Bottom Line
Although a higher income can make it easier to afford a child custody lawyer, it’s not the only factor that impacts the court’s decision in a custody case. Several factors come into play when deciding custody to guarantee the best interests and well-being of the child.
If custody is granted to the lower-income parent, they may also be awarded spousal and child support. The amount paid depends on the model used in each state.